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Taanit Asara BeTevet
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Why is it so important to fast on ‘Asara BeTebet?
On the 10th of Tebet the holy city of Jerusalem was besieged. This was the beginning of a chain of calamities that would eventually lead to the destruction of the Bet HaMiqdash. Derushé Hatam Sofer (Ribi Moshé Sofer, Derush Adar 7:4) explains that on the 10th of Tebet it was decided in Heaven that the Bet HaMiqdash was to be destroyed. Every subsequent year a judgment is held in the heavenly courts to determine whether or not the third Bet HaMiqdash is to be rebuilt. Due to this important reason, even if the fast fell on Shabat,[1] we would be required to fast (Abudraham, O”H Siman 550), as the pasuq states (Yehezqel 24:2) “be’esem hayom hazé” indicating that the fast must be conducted on the exact day it falls on. Even on Tish’a BeAb we do not fast if it lands on Shabat. Therefore, when fasting on ‘Asara BeTebet one should realize that we are all being judged on whether or not the third Bet HaMiqdash will be rebuilt this year and we should make this fast very dear to us.
This year there is the rare occurrence where the fast of ‘Asara BeTebet falls out on a Friday. There are some differences when this situation occurs compared to when the fast falls on a regular weekday, see below for those differences.
Tora Reading
When this fast occurs on ‘Ereb Shabat as opposed to a regular weekday, Moroccan Jews follow the Bet Yosef’s ruling (O”H Siman 550)[2] to not read the parasha of VaYehal Moshé that is read at Minha on normal fast days.[3] Some write that this is still the minhag of Meknes.[4]
Nevertheless, for reasons unknown it appears that the prevalent custom nowadays is to read the Tora at Minha even in Moroccan synagogues.[5]
During the Tora reading on fast days, the minhag is that when the reader reaches the Thirteen Attributes of Mercy (Shelosh ‘Esré Midot, beginning from “Ado-nai, Ado-nai”), he stops while the congregation says them aloud; he then reads them aloud himself and continues with the rest of the reading.[6] It should be mentioned that this is only done on fast days and not on Shabat Perashat Ki Tisa when the same portion is read. Qadish is not said after this reading, rather the Tora is returned to the hekhal followed by Qadish and the ‘Amida.[7]
Tefilin
The Bet Yosef (Siman 46) rules that tefilin must be worn during Minha on fast days since we are lacking in the 100 berakhot that one is required to say everyday due to the fact that we are not eating and miss out on those berakhot. Therefore, the minhag in Morocco developed to wear the talet and tefilin at Minha with a berakha, on all fast days, in order to arrive at these 100 berakhot.[8]
However, when a fast falls on ‘Ereb Shabat (Friday) tefilin are not worn after hasot, therefore they are not worn at Minha, even according to Moroccans.[9]
Mekorot – Sources
[1] Before our modern day set calendar, the holidays and fast days would be determined based upon when Rosh Hodesh was established. Rosh Hodesh would only be established once two witnesses came to the Bet Din and testified that they had seen the moon. Nowadays, with our fixed calendar, the 10th of Tebet can never fall on Shabat.
[2] Opposing the opinion of the Agur who quotes the Shibolé HaLeqet. HaMalakh Refael Berdugo (Torot Emet, O”H 550:3) writes that the custom of Moroccan Jewry is to follow the Agur. See also Shufré DeYosef Berdugo and Ribi David ‘Obadia (Nahagu Ha’Am) who quotes the Torot Emet.
[3] This is because the holiness of Shabat already starts from hasot of Friday. Therefore, we do not read such perashiot. See HaMalakh Refael Berdugo (ibid.) who writes this but clarifies that on fast days that fall during the week the Tora is read at Minha, Nahagu Ha’Am (Ta’aniot), and Ribi Yosef Berdugo (Shufré DeYosef, Hilkhot Ta’anit).
[4] See Maghen Abot (notes of e”H Ribi Abraham ‘Amar s”t (Luah Be-ito) in the name of Ribi Dabiliski) who holds that this custom should be upheld by those who have such a tradition. E”H Ribi Yishaq Rasabi s”t writes that certain Yemenite communities did not read this Tora portion either (see S”A HaMequsar).
[5] Although this custom is mentioned in the above sources, it appears that it was not prevalent in most communities. In the Qisur Shulhan ‘Arukh of Ribi Refael Barukh Toledano this minhag is not mentioned. Furthermore, when the Shufré DeYosef and Nahagu Ha’Am do mention it, they do not write that this is what was practiced, they simply quote what they found in the Torot Emet. After discussing the matter with e”H Ribi Shelomo Dayan s”t (author of ‘Ateret Shelomo), and others, it was unanimously agreed that the minhag to not read the parasha is not the prevalent one, and one should indeed read from the Sefer Tora at Minha when the fast of ‘Asara BeTebet falls on a Friday. E”H Ribi David Banon s”t mentions that he was in Morocco 14 years ago when the fast fell on ‘Ereb Shabat, and e”H Ribi Shim’on Suissa s”t was poseq to read from the Tora and further mentioned that if the tefila would be at Minha Gedola, tefilin would also be worn. E”H Ribi David Peres s”t mentions that his community in Caracas, Venezuela also reads from the Sefer Tora at Minha as well as e”H Ribi ‘Amram Assayag s”t (Chief Sefaradi Rabbi of Toronto). See also Osar HaMikhtabim (Heleq 3, §829), VaYomer Yishaq (Ta’aniot Siman 2), Ma’asé Bereshit (Ta’anit), and Shoshanim LeDavid Sabah (Heleq 2, Siman 4).
[6] E”H Ribi Mordekhai Lebhar s”t explains that this is done in order to awaken the congregation during fast days to change their ways and start emulating the midot of their creator, Hashem, Yitbarakh Shemo La’ad. See Maran HaHida in LeDavid Emet (Siman 10:10) who says this is the minhag, Ribi Yishaq ibn Danan (LeYishaq Reah §100), Ribi Yosef Benaim (Noheg BeHokhma, Sefer Tora §4 p.141) who brings this minhag in the name of the Sefer HaHasidim (Siman 200), and Ribi David ‘Obadia (Nahagu Ha’Am, Ta’aniot, p.116).
[7] See the Moroccan mahzor – Hamesh Ta’aniot.
[8] See Ribi Yishaq Benoualid (VaYomer Yishaq, Liqutim: Ta’anit §2). So too is the custom in Fes (heard from e”H Ribi Aharon Monsonego s”t), Meknes, Marrakech, Tanger, Tetouan (e”H Ribi Ya’aqob Benaim s”t, Maghen Abot, O”H p.428 §79), and most other cities.
[9] Ribi Yishaq Benoualid (VaYomer Yishaq, Heleq 1, Liqutim O”H Ta’aniot), however, rules that when the fast falls on ‘Ereb Shabat, tefilin are NOT worn because the holiness of Shabat has already presided. He bases his ruling on reasons rooted in Qabala. The posqim who mention this minhag seem to imply that even if Minha Gedola is prayed, one still does not wear tefilin because it is after hasot; see Maran HaHida in Mahziq Berakha (Siman 267) and Kaf HaHayim (Siman 25:100).
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Part 2
To clarify yesterday's halakha regarding reading the Tora on 'Asara BeTebet that falls on Friday, if Minha Gedola is prayed, the Tora is read and talet and tefilin are worn. If Minha Qetana is prayed then these three things are not done.
In Morocco there was never a question regarding reading the Tora on the 10th of Tebet that fell on a Friday because in any case Minha Gedola was prayed in order not to be pressed for time and not to diminish the preparations for Shabat, and at such an early time for sure the Tora was read. Hence, these concerns are applicable only to Minha Qetana. Ribi David Banon of Montreal asked Ribi Shim’on Suissa, former Chief Rabbi of Morocco, about this minhag and he answered that the custom is to wear the talet and tefilin and to read Parashat VaYehal Moshé in the event that one prays Minha Gedola. However, if one prays Minha Qetana which was rare as mentioned above, then one would pray without talet and tefilin and would not read Parashat VaYehal Moshé but without question 'Anenu was said in the 'Amida. Ribi Suissa added that he clarified this with Ribi Shalom Messas who told him that this was indeed the custom everywhere besides from Meknes where the talet and tefilin were never worn at Minha of a public fast day (aside from Tish'a BeAb where tefilin are only worn at Minha and not Shaharit). Ribi David Banon writes that he himself merited to pray many years with Ribi Shalom Messas who was from Meknes, and despite that he would wear a talet and tefilin because that was not the minhag of the place he was praying in. Ribi Suissa continues that when 'Asara BeTebet fell on Friday, an effort was made to pray Minha Gedola in order to wear the talet and tefilin and read VaYehal Moshé. This was also confirmed by the Chief Rabbi of Quebec, Ribi David Sabah.
Reciting ‘Anenu
Aside from Shaharit and Minha, during ‘Arbit before the Fasts of Gedalia, Ester, ‘Asara BeTebet, and Shib’a ‘Asar BeTamuz, the Moroccan minhag is to say ‘Anenu in the ‘Amida even though the fast does not begin until the following morning.[1]
Birkat Kohanim
At Minha of fast days, Birkat Kohanim is performed unlike during the regular weekday Minha when it is not done.[2] However, the Shulhan ‘Arukh[3] rules to only do Birkat Kohanim on fast days when Minha Qetana is prayed (later in the afternoon).[4] Thus, neither Birkat Kohanim nor the pesuqim starting with “Eloh-enu ve-elo-hé abotenu…” (if no Kohen is present) is recited on fast days when praying Minha Gedola (before Pelag HaMinha).[5] Furthermore, as mentioned above, the minhag of Morocco is to pray Minha Gedola on fast days.[6]
Therefore, when a fast comes out on ‘Ereb Shabat (Friday) and one recites Minha as normally done right before Shabat starts (Minha Qetana), then the congregation does Birkat Kohanim.
Mekorot – Sources
[1] This is in accordance with the ruling of the Shulhan ‘Arukh (Siman 565). See Tur (Orah Hayim 565:3) and Rosh who notes that this was the custom in Spain. See also Ribi Yosef Messas (Osar HaMikhtabim Heleq 2, §38) and Ribi David ‘Obadia (Nahagu Ha’Am, Ta’aniot §24). E”H Ribi Shelomo ibn Danan of Fes (Maghen Abot, O”H p.431 §22) attests to this being the minhag as well as e”H Ribi David Sabah s”t of Marrakech (Maghen Abot, O”H p.433 §35) and e”H Ribi Ya’aqob Benaim s”t of Tetouan (Maghen Abot, O”H p.427 §75).
[2] The Gemara (Ta’anit 26b) cites Ribi Yosi who rules that Birkat Kohanim is done during Ne’ila of Yom Kipur but not during Minha (of Kipur). Birkat Kohanim is not done during the weekday Minha for fear that after lunch the Kohen may still be intoxicated from alcohol drunk during lunch. Since one cannot perform Birkat Kohanim in a state of stupor, the Rabbis decreed that Birkat Kohanim never be done during the weekday Minha. However, in the case of Yom Kipur, even though such a situation would not arise because the Kohen will be fasting and not consuming any alcohol, Ribi Yosi nonetheless rules that Birkat Kohanim is not performed during Minha of Kipur for fear that some may confuse the law and inadvertently do Birkat Kohanim during Minha of the week. However at Ne’ila, since it is only once a year, the Rabbis were not concerned that people would be confused. Following the same course of logic, Maran (O”H, Siman 129:1) permits performing Birkat Kohanim during Minha of regular fast days only if Minha is recited close to sunset (Minha Qetana). The reason being that this is equated to a Ne’ila service and thus people will not err. On fast days, since one does not eat we are not worried that the Kohen will become intoxicated and therefore we take this opportunity to perform it.
[3] O”H Siman 129
[4] Ribi David ‘Obadia (Sfrou, Nahagu Ha’Am, Somot VeTa’aniot §2) and e”H Ribi Yehoshu’a Maman s”t in ‘Emeq Yehoshu’a (Meknes, as quoted by Maghen Abot, O”H p.423 §2) write that the Jews of North Africa never recited Birkat Kohanim at Minha of regular fast days primarily because Minha was prayed in the afternoon close to midday (Minha Gedola). They stipulate though, that even if a synagogue prays Minha Qetana, the opinion of Maran is still not followed and Birkat Kohanim nor Elo-henu is recited in order not to differentiate and complicate matters. HaRab Yafé LaLeb of Izmir, Turkey (Siman 127:5) also writes that even when praying Minha Qetana of fast days, Birkat Kohanim is not recited.
[5] This is according to the Shulhan ‘Arukh in Siman 566:5. See also Nahagu Ha’Am (p.111, Somot VeTa’aniot §6), Qiriat Hana David (O”H Siman 87), Yafé LaLeb (Siman 127:5, who confirms that this was the minhag in Izmir, Turkey), and Kaf HaHayim 566:51. This is also the ruling of e”H Ribi ‘Amram Assayag s”t and other posqim. It should be noted that Ribi Yosef Hayim (the Ben Ish Hai) rules in sefer Rab Pe’alim (Heleq 4, Siman 6) that if a Kohen does go up to do Birkat Kohanim at Minha Gedola, the congregation should not stop him. Ribi David ‘Obadia in his sefer Nahagu Ha’Am (Ta’aniot) rules that in order not to make any difference between the two Minhas, we do not recite Birkat Kohanim regardless of when Minha is recited. E”H Ribi Yehoshu’a Maman s”t in ‘Emeq Yehoshu’a as quoted by Maghen Abot (O”H p.423 §2) cites the minhag of Meknes being that generally Minha Gedola would be prayed and thus Birkat Kohanim is not done, but adds that even if Minha Qetana was prayed it is still not done.
[6] See Nahagu Ha’Am (ibid.), Qiriat Hana David (Siman 87), Shoshanim LeDavid Sabah (Heleq 2 Siman 4), and ‘Emeq Yehoshu’a (as quoted by Maghen Abot, O”H p.423 §2).
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With the discovery of the goblet in Binyamin's sack, the brothers are confused. Yehuda alone steps forward and eloquently but firmly petitions Yosef for Binyamin's release, offering himself instead. As a result of this act of total selflessness, Yosef finally has irrefutable proof that his brothers are different people from the ones who cast him into the pit, and so he now reveals to them that he is none other than their brother. The brothers shrink from him in shame, but Yosef consoles them, telling them that everything has been part of Hashem’s plan. He sends them back to their father Yaakov with a message to come and reside in the land of Goshen. At first, Yaakov cannot accept the news, but when he recognizes hidden signs in the message which positively identify the sender as his son Yosef, his spirit is revived.
Yaakov, together with all his family and possessions, sets out for Goshen. Hashem communicates with Yaakov in a vision at night. He tells him not to fear going down to Egypt and its negative spiritual consequences, because it is there that Hashem will establish the Children of Israel as a great nation although they will be dwelling in a land steeped in immorality and corruption.
The Torah lists Yaakov's offspring and hints to the birth of Yocheved, who will be the mother of Moshe Rabbeinu. Seventy souls in total descend into Egypt, where Yosef is reunited with his father after 22 years of separation. He embraces his father and weeps, overflowing with joy. Yosef secures the settlement of his family in Goshen. Yosef takes his father Yaakov and five of the least threatening of his brothers to be presented to Pharaoh, and Yaakov blesses Pharaoh. Yosef instructs that, in return for grain, all the people of Egypt must give everything to Pharaoh, including themselves as his slaves. Yosef then redistributes the population, except for the Egyptian priests, who are directly supported by a stipend from Pharaoh. The Children of Israel become settled, and their numbers multiply greatly.
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סעודה בערב שבת
שאלה: האם מותר לאכול סעודה עם לחם אחר חצות היום ביום שישי?
תשובה: בגמרא במסכת גיטין (דף לח:) אמרו, שתי משפחות היו בירושלים, אחת קבעה סעודתה בשבת ואחת קבעה סעודתה בערב שבת, ושתיהן נעקרו. כלומר, שתי משפחות חשובות ועשירות היו בירושלים, ושתיהן חטאו ונעקרו מן העולם. הראשונה, היתה קובעת סעודה גדולה ביום שבת בשעות הצהרים, בשעה שכל העם הולכים לבית המדרש לעסוק בתורה והרב היה יושב ודורש, והם היו יושבים ואוכלים. והשניה היתה קובעת סעודה גדולה ביום שישי, ומפני כן היו כל בני המשפחה שבעים בליל שבת, ולא היו אוכלים בעונג כראוי, ושתיהן נעקרו מן העולם.
ופירשו המפרשים, שמה שאסור לקבוע סעודה גדולה בערב שבת, הכוונה היא לסעודה שאינו רגיל לאוכלה בימות החול. וכגון מה שנהגו בכמה משפחות, שביום שישי כל בני המשפחה הנשואים מתאספים בבית הסבתא, ואוכלים מתבשיליה בסעודה גדולה. שעל ידי זה פוגעים בכבוד השבת, שלעת ערב לא יוכלו לאכול סעודה כראוי. ולכן אסור לעשות כן.
ואיסור זה נוהג במשך כל היום, ולאו דוקא מחצות היום. כלומר, אפילו אם עושים כן בשעה אחת עשרה לפני הצהרים, גם כן הדבר אסור, שעל ידי זה פוגעים בלי ספק בכבוד השבת. ובפרט בימות החורף שהימים קצרים.
אבל סעודה שרגילים לאוכלה גם בימות החול, וכגון מי שתמיד אוכל בשעה ארבע בצהרים, הרי שמותר לו לעשות כן גם בערב שבת. ומכל מקום מצוה להמנע גם מאכילה כזו, החל מהשעה התשיעית שביום. (כלומר, שמחלקים את היום מהזריחה עד השקיעה לשתים עשרה חלקים, וכל חלק הוא שעה זמנית אחת, ומהשעה התשיעית שביום, אין לאכול עוד עד הלילה). ומרן רבינו עובדיה יוסף זצוק”ל כתב בזו הלשון: שאף על פי שלהלכה מותר לאכול עד השקיעה, מכל מקום זהו דוקא לצורך שעה (כלומר באקראי), אבל לעשות כן תמיד, יש לאסור מתשע שעות ולמעלה, שאם לא כן, נראה כמזלזל בכבוד שבת. (חזון עובדיה ח”א עמוד לב).
וכתב המשנה ברורה (סימן רמט), שכל אדם שיודע שעל ידי זה שיאכל יהיה שבע בערב, מצוה עליו להמנע מאכילה ושתיה מרובה אפילו לפני השעה התשיעית, ובפרט בימות החורף, שהרי רואים כולם שמי שהוא שותה שתיה מרובה ביום שישי, ובפרט אם שותה יין וכדומה, וכן מי שאוכל הרבה ביום שישי, הרי על ידי זה אינו רעב בלילה, ולכן מצוה להמנע מאכילה כזו.
ולסיכום: סעודה שרגילים לאכול בימות החול, מותר לאוכלה ביום שישי. וסעודה שלא רגילים לאוכלה בימות החול, אסור לאכלה ביום שישי, ואפילו בשעה מוקדמת. ומהשעה התשיעית ביום, כלומר, כשלוש שעות לפני השקיעה, מצוה להמנע מלאכול אפילו סעודה קטנה. אבל לטעום ולאכול מעט ממאכלי השבת וכדומה, אין איסור כלל.
Eating a Meal on Erev Shabbat
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Question: Is one permitted to eat a bread meal after halachic midday on Erev Shabbat (Friday afternoon)?
Answer: The Gemara (Gittin 38b) states that there were two wealthy and important families in Jerusalem and both of them sinned to the extent that they were eventually uprooted from the world. The first family would hold a large meal on Shabbat afternoon at the same time the entire community would file into the Bet Midrash to study Torah; as the rabbi would sit to lecture on Torah, they would sit down to eat. The second family would hold a large meal on Friday and as a result, the entire family was full on Shabbat night and they would not eat with enjoyment as prescribed by Halacha. Both of these families eventually perished.
The Poskim explain that the prohibition to hold a large meal on Erev Shabbat refers to a meal one is not accustomed to eating during the rest of the week. For instance, the custom that some families have that the entire family gathers in the grandmother’s home on Friday to eat a large meal and partake of what she has cooked is contrary to Halacha since this is an affront to the honor of Shabbat since one will not be able to enjoy the Shabbat night meal properly as a result. This is especially true during the winter when the days are short.
However, a meal which is normally eaten during the rest of the week, such as if one always eats a meal at four o’clock in the afternoon, may be eaten on Erev Shabbat as well. Nevertheless, it is a Mitzvah to abstain from eating such a meal beginning from the ninth hour of the day (meaning that the day is divided into twelve parts from sunrise to sunset and each one of these parts is one seasonal hour; from the ninth seasonal hour of the day, one should not eat anymore until nightfall). Maran Rabbeinu Ovadia Yosef zt”l writes, as follows: “Although halachically speaking it is permissible to eat until sunset, nevertheless, this should only be done as needed and only occasionally; however, to do so on a constant basis is forbidden beginning from the ninth hour of the day, for doing so constitutes a disrespect for Shabbat.” (Chazon Ovadia-Shabbat, Part 1, page 32)
The Mishnah Berura (Chapter 249) states that if one knows that eating or drinking will cause one to be full at night, it is a Mitzvah for one to abstain from eating or drinking profusely even before the ninth hour of the day, especiually during the winter months, for we can see that one who eats or drinks profusely (especially wine) on Friday is not hungry at night. It is therefore a Mitzvah to abstain from such eating and drinking.
Summary: A meal normally eaten throughout the rest of the week may be eaten on Friday as well. A meal not usually eaten during the rest of the week may not be eaten on Friday, even at an early hour of the day. Beginning from the ninth hour of the day, i.e. approximately three hours before sunset, it is a Mitzvah to abstain from eating even a small meal. Nevertheless, eating small things or tasting some of the Shabbat food and the like is completely permissible.