Newsletter Parashat Devarim – Shabbat Chazon

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Q & A on Parashat Devarim

  1. How do we see from the beginning of Parshat Devarim that Moshe was concerned for the Jewish Peoples honor?
    1:1 Moshe mentions only the names of the places where the Jewish People sinned, but does not mention the sins themselves.
  2. How much time elapsed between leaving Mt. Sinai and sending the spies?
    1:2 – 40 days.
  3. Moshe rebuked the Jewish People shortly before his death. From whom did he learn this?
    1:3 – From Yaakov, who rebuked his sons shortly before his death.
  4. Why did Moshe wait until he had smitten the Amorite kings before rebuking the Jewish People?
    1:4 So that no one could say, "What right has he to rebuke us; has he brought us into any part of the Land as he promised?"
  5. What were some of the achievements that resulted from the Jewish People "dwelling" at Mt. Sinai?
    1:6 – They received the Torah, built the mishkan and all its vessels, appointed a Sanhedrin, and appointed officers.
  6. Why does the Torah single out the names of the avot in connection with the giving of the Land?
    1:8 – Each of the avot possessed sufficient merit for the Jewish People to inherit the Land.
  7. What did Moshe convey to the Jewish People by saying: "You today are like the stars of the Heavens"?
    1:10 – They are an eternal people, just as the sun, moon and stars are eternal.
  8. "Apikorsim" (those who denigrate Talmud scholars) observed Moshes every move in order to accuse him. What did they observe, and what did they accuse him of?
    1:13 They observed the time he left home in the morning. If Moshe left early, they accused him of having family problems (which drove him from his home). If he left late, they accused him of staying home in order to plot evil against them.
  9. Moshe was looking for several qualities in the judges he chose. Which quality couldn't he find?
    1:15 – Men of understanding.
  10. Moshe told the judges, "The case that is too hard for you, bring it to me." How was he punished for this statement?
    1:17 – When the daughters of Tzelofchad asked him a halachic question, the law was concealed from him.
  11. Why did Moshe describe the desert as great and frightful?
    1:19 – Because the Jewish People saw huge, frightening snakes and scorpions in the desert.
  12. Which tribe was not represented among the spies?
    1:23 – Levi.
  13. Which city did Calev inherit?
    1:36 – Hebron.
  14. How many kingdoms was Avraham promised? How many were conquered by Yehoshua?
    2:5 – Avraham was promised the land of ten kingdoms. Yehoshua conquered seven. The lands of Moav, Ammon and Esav will be received in the time of the mashiach.
  15. Why were the Jewish People forbidden to provoke Ammon?
    2:9 – This was a reward for Lots younger daughter, the mother of Ammon, for concealing her fathers improper conduct.
  16. Why were the Jewish People not permitted to conquer the Philistines?
    2:23 – Because Avraham had made a peace treaty with Avimelech, King of the Philistines.
  17. How did Hashem instill the dread of the Jewish People into the nations of the world?
    2:25 – During the battle against Og, the sun stood still for the sake of the Jewish People, and the whole world saw this.
  18. Why did Moshe fear Og?
    3:2 – Og possessed merit for having once helped Avraham.
  19. Who was instrumental in destroying the Refaim?
    3:11 – Amrafel.
  20. What was the advantage of Reuven and Gad leading the way into battle?
    3:18 – They were mighty men, and the enemy would succumb to them.

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Halachot from Maran Rabbi Ovadia Yosef Ztz'l  


משחרב בית המקדש בטל השמיר

שאלה: ברצוני לשאול, האם לאדם שדורש ברבים ומעביר שיעורי מוסר, מותר להציג עובדות של דברים לא טובים שקורים בעם ישראל כדי לעורר את השומעים? או שיש בזה קטרוג על עם ישראל?

תשובה: הגמרא במסכת יבמות (מט:) אומרת, שכאשר ברח ישעיה הנביא עליו השלום ממנשה, אמר שם קדוש ונבלע בארז, באו וניסרו את הארז, וכשהגיע המסור לפיו של ישעיה, יצאה נפשו. ומדוע אירע כך לישעיה הנביא? מפני שאמר (ישעיה ו ה) "וּבְתוֹךְ עַם טְמֵא שְׂפָתַיִם אָנֹכִי יוֹשֵׁב", ופירש רש"י, שנענש משום שקרא לעם ישראל עם "טמא שפתים", מדעתו, ומוסיף רש"י, שישעיה לא אמר כן "מחמת תוכחה", כלומר, אילו היה ישעיה אומר כן לישראל כדי להוכיח אותם, לא היה נענש.

למדנו מדברי רש"י שאם אומר כן כדי להוכיח, מותר. וכן כתב המאירי שם, וזו לשונו, לעולם יזהר אדם שלא לספר בגנות חברו וכו', כלומר שלא בדרך תוכחה. וכן פירשו רבינו אברהם מן ההר והריב"ן.

והמהר"ל בחדושי אגדות שם הוסיף, שאף שהנביאים היו מדברים דברים קשים על ישראל, בכל זאת כשהיו מדברים לה' יתברך לא היו אומרים לו דברים רעים על ישראל, וישעיה הנביא  דיבר אל הקב"ה, ובדבר זה נענש.

ונראה שהדברים מכוונים לדברי רש"י והמאירי, כי אין לדבר גנות על עם ישראל, רק בדרך תוכחה, ודברי תוכחה צריך לאומרם לעם ישראל. אבל כשהוא מדברי ומתפלל לפני הקב"ה, אדרבה צריך לומר עליהם דברי סניגוריא.

אמנם, צריך לדעת שלא כדורות הראשונים דורות האחרונים, ולא כמוכיחים הראשונים מוכיחים האחרונים, ויש הרבה מה להאריך בזה, ואנו נזכיר רק את דברי הגאון ההפלא"ה בספרו פנים יפות (סוף פרשת יתרו) שכתב בזה דברים נפלאים, ואלו דבריו שם:

שאף על פי שאמר התנא (אבות פ"ד מ"י) והוי שפל רוח בפני כל אדם, מכל מקום עת וזמן לכל חפץ ה' להשיב רבים מעון, ולקרב את המרוחקים להסיר לב האבן מבשרם. ועל זה נאמר (תהלים לא כה) חזקו ויאמץ לבבכם כל המיחלים לה', להתחזק ולעמוד כנגדם כחומה הנשגבה, כאשר הזהיר ה' יתברך את ירמיה הנביא להלחם עמם ולשבר סלעים וצור מכשול מלבבם.

אמנם בכל זאת חס ושלום מלעורר הדין עליהם, כמו שמצינו בישעיה הנביא שנענש על מה שאמר בתוך עם טמא שפתים אנכי יושב. וכן בהושע הנביא. ואף שצריך לדבר אליהם קשות ולהודיעם העונשים החמורים, צריך לכלכל דבריו במשפט.

ויש לרמוז בזה מה שאמרו במשנה סוף סוטה (מח.), "משחרב בית המקדש בטל השמיר (תולעת שמיר) ונופת צופים", כי השמיר היה מבקע וחותך את האבנים בלי ברזל, אלא מעמידים את השמיר מבחוץ והאבנים מתבקעות מאליהן, והוא רמז לתוכחה מגולה ואהבה מסותרת, שהרב מודיע לעם את העונשים, אך נזהר שלא לעורר דין עליהם, והוא דוגמת השמיר שהוא חזק מאד, ומשבר מבלי נגיעה כדרך הברזל.

עוד יש אופן להכניס דברי תוכחה בלב השומע, על ידי המתקת המוסר בדברי תורה ופירושים וטעמים, המתוקים מדבש ונופת צופים, ועל ידי עריבות ומתיקות התורה יקבלו דברים הקשים והמוסר החזק שבתוכה. כאשר יעשו רופאים לחולה בסמים החזקים וקשים, לערב בהם מיני מתיקה, למען יערב לאוכלה.

אך כבר אמרו חז"ל (ערכין טז:) תמה אני אם יש בדור הזה מי שמקבל תוכחה, ומי שיודע להוכיח. ועל זה אמרו שמזמן חורבן הבית בטל השמיר ונופת צופים, בין בדברים קשים כשמיר המשבר, בין בדברים המתוקים כנופת צופים. שכמעט אין מי שיודע להוכיח כראוי עד כאן תוכן דברי ההפלא"ה.

וכך ראינו למורנו ורבנו מרן הראש"ל הגאון רבי עובדיה יוסף זצ"ל, אשר היה מקרב את העם בדרך של אהבה וחבה, ופעמים מעטות היה יוצא חוצץ בדברים קשים, נגד אינשי דלא מעלי, הרודפים את התורה ולומדיה. אבל לכללות עם ישראל היה מדבר תמיד בדברי נועם, והיה ממליץ על זה: דברי חכמים, בנחת, נשמעים. כאשר דברי החכמים הם בנחת, אז נשמעים לצבור.

תשובתו של ידידינו הגאון רבי גד יזדי שליט"א, תלמיד מרן זצ"ל.

When the Bet Hamikdash Was Destroyed, the Shamir Worm Was Abolished

Question: If one is giving Mussar discourses to the public, may one present bad things that are happening within the Jewish nation in order to arouse the listeners or is does this cause some sort of prosecution upon the Jewish nation?

Answer: The Gemara (Yevamot 49b) states that when the prophet Yashaya fled from King Menashe, he uttered a holy name and was immediately sucked into a cedar tree. When the officers began sawing the tree and the saw reached his mouth, Yeshaya’s soul departed. The Gemara explains that the reason this happened to Yeshaya is because he stated, “And I dwell among a nation of impure lips,” and Rashi explains that he was punished for calling the Jewish nation one of impure lips on his own. Rashi adds that Yeshaya did not say this “in a manner of rebuke,” from which we can infer that had he said the very same thing to offer reproach to the Jewish nation, he would not have been punished.

We see from the words of Rashi that if one speaks ill of the Jewish nation in order to offer rebuke, this would be permissible. The Meiri, Rabbeinu Avraham Min Hahar, and Rivan concur.

The Maharal of Prague writes in his commentary on the aforementioned Gemara that although the prophets would speak harshly to the Jewish nation, nevertheless, when addressing Hashem, they would be careful not to do so. Since Yeshaya did so when speaking to Hashem, he was punished.

This would seem to fall in line with the words of Rashi and the Meiri in that one may only speak ill of the Jewish nation when this is in the context of rebuke and rebuke, by definition, must be addressed to the Jewish nation. However, in the context of speaking and praying to Hashem, one must speak the merits of the Jewish nation.

However, we must realize that our generation is not like previous ones and the individuals offering rebuke today are not like those of the days of yore. There is much to delve in this topic. However, let us quote the words of the great Gaon, Rabbeinu Pinchas Ha’Levi Horowitz zt”l, author of the Hafla’a, in his Sefer Panim Yafot (end of Parashat Yitro) on this idea:

“Although the Tanna writes (Avot 4:10) states, ‘Be low of spirit before all men,’ nevertheless there is a time and place for everything, especially returning the masses from sin and removing the heart of stone from their flesh. About this does the verse in Tehillim (31:25) state, ‘Be strong and brave of heart, all those who yearn for Hashem.’ One must be strong and stand firmly against them like a mighty wall as Hashem commanded the prophet Yirmeya to fight with them and break the impediments of their hearts.

This can be alluded to in the Mishnah (Sotah 48a) which states, ‘When the Bet Hamikdash was destroyed, the Shamir worm and the sweetness of the honeycomb was abolished.’ The Shamir worm would cut through stone without the use of metal. The Shamir would be placed on the outside of the stone and the stone would split on its own. This is a reference to open rebuke but hidden love in that a rabbi must notify his flock of the punishments while taking care not to direct the Heavenly attribute of judgment against them, just like the Shamir which was mighty but was able to split the stone without touching it.

Another way to infuse words of Mussar into the heart of the listen is by peppering the words of rebuke with words of Torah and its commentaries which are sweeter than honey. As a result of the sweetness of the Torah, the harsh words of reproach contained within them will be more easily accepted. Indeed, doctors commonly mix sharp medications with other sweet ingredients so that it will be more easily consumed by the patient.

Nevertheless, our Sages taught (Arachin 16b), ‘I would be surprised if anyone in the generation knows how to accept rebuke or how to offer it.’ This is what the Gemara meant by saying, ‘When the Bet Hamikdash was destroyed, the Shamir worm and the sweetness of the honeycomb were abolished,’ which is a reference to both harsh words like the mighty Shamir as well as words as sweet as a honeycomb. There is almost no one who knows how to properly offer words of rebuke nowadays.”

This is indeed what we have witnessed to be the way of Maran Rabbeinu Ovadia Yosef zt”l who would constantly bring the Jewish nation closer to Torah observance through loving and endearing words and he would only sparingly come out harshly against evil people who would attack the Torah and those who learn it. To the general public though, he would always speak pleasantly and lovingly. He would hint this using the verse, “The words of the wise are heard amid pleasantness.”

This response was submitted by our dear colleague, Hagaon Harav Gad Yazdi Shlit”a, beloved student of Maran zt”l.

Shabbat Shalom


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